I was a mediocre husband for 15 years. Today, I teach husbands how to avoid the mistakes I made. How to grow and become great men. The kind their wives swoon over. New content delivered monthly. 👊🏼
“Don’t tell me you miss me. Tell me you’re outside with tacos. Action.” (Deanna Cobden)
Hi Reader,
Stay tuned for next week’s longer-form post: “Increase Your S#x Appeal.”
This week — a crazy-busy one for most of us in the States — I bring you this succinct, passivity-shattering reminder:
Engage with her this week.
Actively.
Intentionally.
Are you reserved? Do something goofy. Pick her up. Dance with her next to the cranberry sauce.
Are you a jokester? Do something thoughtful. Write down 5-10 things she does that you’re grateful for. Read your list at the dinner table.
Move from the background — where you‘ve been — to the foreground — where you belong.
Action.
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Your Coach,
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I was a mediocre husband for 15 years. Today, I teach husbands how to avoid the mistakes I made. How to grow and become great men. The kind their wives swoon over. New content delivered monthly. 👊🏼
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