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Is Your Wife Having a Hard Day?
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Hi Reader,
This week’s marriage wisdom comes from Simon Sinek — New York Times bestselling author of Find Your Why and Leaders Eat Last.
Has your wife ever had a hard day? Has she ever been sad? Has she ever wanted to murder one of your children? And have you ever thought, “Crap. I have no idea how to respond right now”?
If so, this 2-minute video will be worth your while.
The clip is a bit “touchy-feely,” but you won’t die. What Sinek shares is a game-changer and the metaphor he uses will stick with you.
Plus, tenderness is a sign of strength, not weakness.
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​Put It to Work
- ​Watch the video.
- The next time your wife is sad or depressed or having a hard day or feels like murdering your firstborn, sit in the mud with her and simply say, “This sucks.”
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Your Coach,
Wife Magnet
I was a mediocre husband for 15 years. Today, I teach husbands how to avoid the mistakes I made. How to grow and become great men. The kind their wives swoon over. New content delivered monthly. 👊🏼
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