I was a mediocre husband for 15 years. Today, I teach husbands how to avoid the mistakes I made. How to grow and become great men. The kind their wives swoon over. New content delivered monthly. 👊🏼
There are No Little Things
Hi Reader,
Men with strong and sexy marriages understand the compound effect — the power of little things, done consistently over time, that lead to extraordinary results.
- Leave a handwritten note
- Compliment her: “I was just admiring how you...”
- Go to bed when she does
- Show up where she works with her favorite smoothie
- Give her a 5-minute shoulder or foot massage
- Hold her when she’s sad
- Text her for no good reason, other than to say, “I was thinking about you.”
If it feels vaguely familiar — like you’re courting her all over again — you’re on the right track.
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Put It to Work
- Do one little thing right now to move in your wife’s direction. To bring sexy back. To make your marriage a priority again.
- Repeat after me: “There are no little things.”
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Your Coach,
Wife Magnet
I was a mediocre husband for 15 years. Today, I teach husbands how to avoid the mistakes I made. How to grow and become great men. The kind their wives swoon over. New content delivered monthly. 👊🏼
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